Need to explain myself

A while ago i published my article about single people and my point of view anout the whole subject...it's called "being single sucks"...and recently my friend kinda told me that she was kinda hit by my harsh words from that article...

Well i didn't like that...i don't feel that i'm doing the right thing if people end up hurt after reading this...so i'll try to explain myself,once again...

First of all don't belive in punishment...even of people that did something horrible,let alone of punishment people who happend to be single...as i wrote...i realy feel for them...

 after a five years of serious relationship i was all alone for couple of years myself and i know how bad can things get if you're not mentaly strong to stay positive...

I wrote that single people over..let's say thirthy...are retarding...wich is a strong word but what i try to say is that you can never see yourself and your life in a "waiting mode"...that's right...you ask these people,what are you doing now about relationship...they'll tell you...well...i'm WAITING for the right person!

Tell me something when was the last time you were waiting for anything and being happy while waiting...of course you weren't...waiting sucks...it's boring...nobody likes it...so don't turn your life into waiting...life is not about waiting,it's about living...

You're single...so what...you can't stop working on yourself just because you're alone...shit,it's actualy the best time for the improvement...

I also wrote"carreful what you wish"...and i literaly mean it...you put a small bait and a small hook you'll catch a small fish,but if you put a big bait and a huge hook don't be supprised if a fuckin' sharks grabs it...

In another words...if you looking for sex...try to give people that vibe...so the people aproach you wanting exactly that...but if you make sure that you look like a player or a slutty girl,be aware that you're not giving a vibe to others,that you're a good marrige material because people are judgemental...we all are...and if i see a mega hot platinum blond with her tits poping out my eyeballs,i won't think that she can hold a pan or a vacuum cleaner or a baby in her arms...hell the only thing she'll be holding from where i see is well...a cock or cockS...

I wouln't think of relationship and marrige but i gotta say as i know myself..i like to give everybody a chance so i would give that kinda girl a chance too...but we're not talkin' about me here....most people would think is...what you get is what you see...

You're alone...you're having trouble of beaing social,to easy make new friendship...ok,you might have a problem...not a huge problem,you're not evil..but you'd like that to change...

First of all...understand that something about you brought to that problem...instead desperately repeating to solve that problem in you're most obvious way...try diferent aproach...

Try to change the cause of that problem appearing in a first place...in another words...change the way you think...now if you ask me...but what should i change about me...i don't know what...start with forst thing you remember of...be brave to fail...it's fine...we're humans...find that courage and enjoy in your new you...

Definition of insanity is doing a same thing over and over expecting a diferent result...

It's like you're using a shitty search engine to find something...and you keep trying with some new key words instead of trying out a whole diferent search engine..

And be happy everyday...trust me guys...if you look and feel like a failure...nobody'll want you...who wants a failure...no one...

We all need a positive strong and stabile person in our lifes,that's like a rule...that kind pf people are fun,exciting,reliable...so become one...and get one too

 But you'll only be able to be like that if you live in peace with who you are...that doesn't mean that you shouldn't progress and develope it's just that..make sure that you enjoy in every second while doing it...be happy,be humble...be bright...because it's the sexiest thing in the world:)))

Sorry friend if i make you feel bad that was the last thing i wanted...how ever i hope that you know that i wish you nothing but the best in life and that i wish you same things i wish me....accept maybe to squat with 400kg...i don't think you'd realy like that:-)