Who are you 🙏🏽❤️⁉️

Hey lovZ😘

I’ve been talking about this a lot with my friends so I decided to write it down too...

How good you are...

It’s very often question we ask ourselves and it’s usually about the stuff we care...

If you sing you ask yourself how good singer you are,act..how good actor you are,etc..

Well,since I believe in the law of attraction this is my stance...

If yoo do something for some time,and there’s no significant improvement,there’s a big possibility you suck at it🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

I don’t try to be mean,and certainly don’t try to be negative...

Law of attraction say that you need to be happy now...Today!!!

If you wait for something to happen in order to become happy you’re wrong..happiness is not about tomorrow,anxiety is about tomorrow..happiness is about TODAY!

I work as a personal trainer for some time now..first in one gym and then in another...

The truth to the matter is that..I suck at it!

And don’t get me wrong I’m positive that having me as a personal trainer is the best PT service that money can buy,but it’s not about that...

It’s about how people react when they see me...they wanna move as future away as possible...and that thing is a recipe for a disaster!

If I was good at that,if the Universe wanted me to be great I would be having that fulfilling feeling in my guts from day one...but I never felt it!

It was wrong,from day one!

And listen every single client I have knows for a fact that I’m really good...but the fact that I have enough clients to put on my ten fingers is describing everything!

But I’m not trying to be melodramatic her or anything,I’m trying to be happy with it!

Of course I’m not gonna stop doing something I love,and of course I’ll be happy with a few clients that I have because they are awesome,but I don’t want to keep waiting for the day when I’ll become a television super star being a personal trainer of the century...fuck that!

Life is too short to wait!

I told you I was an actor before...

Since I can’t read at least not really good..when we used to have rehearsals my director asked my mom..why did she brought her regarded kid to ast when he cannot even read,but then we had an acting audition and he saw something in me...

As that young I was lazy to wipe my ass,let alone go and have rehearsals after school and then walk back home for almost an hour...

But for me it felt like I’m doing something that I’m made for...

In every fuckin play I was that amazingly great character and soon enough I won the best actor in children’s theaters in the country and being introduced to profesors of the academy who welcomed me saying..we’re experiencing you soon in our classes,young man:)

When something is good,you feel it..it’s great..the gut feeling is so strong that only an idiot couldn’t understand it!!!

My bodybuilding competition...

I competed it was great it was my first time and I didn’t just won I fuckin killed it...but...

In order to have the money for that competition I needed to work extra something that I really,really hate,on Sundays,every Sunday all summer long,beside my Monday to Friday job!

I competed,I won,got my trophy...and a glass of water!!!

Came back home from Gothenburg,tired,broken and broke,trying to get some sleep so I can work later that day😂😂😂

People ask me..are you gonna compet again..I say..FUCK NO!

If it was ment to be,somebody would approach me,someone would say something..I would got contacted by someone after that..but nobody did..why?

Cuz it’s just ain’t my thing..I tried it it was fun,but I don’t wanna do it again definitely under the same conditions...

The feeling I got from it...was Andrija,what the fuck are you ever doing here...go home!

I was after my wife for five years...

She didn’t want me,she had a serious relationship and that was that...

Hanging out with her tho was awesome so I kept doing it,but once she said she’s single and that we should try to be together..the feeling was clear as a whistle...

This is not going to be just a fuck or some pathetic attempt..this is gonna be big..

I felt that so hard that that day I stopped smoking..just because I wanted to stop with my self destruction of that kind...

I have dozens of examples of this went wrong and right and every single time I felt it as clearly as it can be...what it’s going to happen...

Wasn’t positive,wasn’t negative...I just felt things!

My point today is not to tell you that if you’re not super great in something that you should quit or feel like a looser but I do think you should stand with both feet on the ground and not waste your life on something you’re not ment to be...

They tell you,you can be everything you wish for..sure,but they don’t tell you that there’s a price for all those things...

Some people make money easy I don’t..I was also offered many times to deal drugs..that’s good money right..emyeah but there’s a price for that...

Youcan work two jobs or even three..and there you go,cash will start coming..but..you won’t be able to see your friends to spend time with your family and your children will act like you’re a stranger whenever you’re home...see the price!

I could purchase my dream of becoming a bodybuilder..could make my wife my slave that’s gonna work for me and my competition needs,se we never go anywhere,we never see anything and anyone because we need money for my bodybuilding..fuck no!

Life is today...if you feel you’re really onto something..go for it,make it work,get better..nail it....

But if something is not going easy for you,even if others are great doing it..don’t waste your life trying to become them...

They are them you are you❤️

Zebras and lions🦓🦁❤️

...And this is a fact you’ll all agree,right?

Any sexual girl would love a bad boy figure to fuck her,like sometimes when her heart gets broken by a bad boy she’ll play it safe with dorks but really...a good guy can’t make you wet just by the way he looks at you,that’s just the way it is...

Many times good guy turns into a misogynist because he’s been treating women like princess and all they gave him in return is that they sucked some bad boy’s cock at the back seat of a car😁😁😁

This sounds maybe too extreme but trust me..been there done that...

But those girls who were sucking dicks...their boyfriend maybe think they have done that because they’re evil and bad but honestly why would they do that if their boyfriend was perfect for them?

Cuz he’s not!!!

Same goes for guys...guys make this silly mistake where they are searching a good girl for their life companion..and then after a couple of years they try to find passion because let me tell you one thing...you can be a perfect girlfriend,great person,very dedicated..while you’ve never swallowed cum or took it in the ass...dunno what to tell you...

Now I’m not telling people how they should be here I really don’t but I really don’t like labeling people as good and bad because it’s bullshit..there’s no good and bad..we do shit for certain reasons,and that’s all...

Now what’s the problem in this equation then?

The problem is that bad boy won’t become good just because he met you,neither will bad girl turn into a Mother Marry once you DECIDE she’s the one...why?

Because lions won’t leave you alone just because you’re treating them nicely...

Lions bite and kill not because they’re evil,not because they’re bad..but because they’re lions!

And in the real life,it happens so many times that the rich dork( a zebra-guy) get himself a lioness..simply because they’re beautiful,super hot and fun,but then they wanna turn them into another zebra...

That’s a sin to the humanity

No zebra should try to become a lion not lion should change into zebra...

We humans are the only beings that can and must learn how to control our natural instincts...

Therefore the first step in anyone’s emotional development is to understand your nature...are you a zebra or a lion,and then try by yourself to control your natural instinct....

If you’re a zebra you need to learn how control your fears and if you’re a lion,how to decrease your desire to kill!

This should not be forced by another person but rather be an intention on making yourself a better human being...

Once you recognize that,once you understand it and start working on your own mental and emotional awareness,only then you’re ready to share your life someone.

So my opinion is that you shouldn’t blame others for your own weaknesses but rather work on them and make yourself more complete individual...a bit bolsy zebra or a bit calmer lion!!!

Because this thing I’m about to tell you is a fact...

LIONS NEED ZEBRAS AND ZEBRAS NEED LIONS!!!

If two zebras get into a relationship they’ll bored each other to death, and two lions will eventually kill each other to death...

At the very end I just like to add that being zebra or a lion has not a single thing to do with having a dick or a pussy🍕🍆🍕🍆🍕🍆

Have a great Sunday my zebraZ and lionZ😘

Where is your love😶

Hey guyZ:)))

I try to make this world a better place as much as I can..really I do...

I can’t make people be scientists because I’m not one myself but if I can make someone feel better I will do my best..

But it’s so fuckin hard...

You know...I talk to people in the gym and outside the gym about the gym...

These people train hard for pretty long time very dedicated but a month after month a year after year they look the same and they lift the same.

After all that time spent in the gym,after all those meals,those tons of weight and liters of protein shakes...they ask me a question to improve their looks,strength circumferences...

And you know what’s killing me...

They describe their goal and dreams by using words such as...a bit bigger,JUST..ONLY...A FEW...NOT TOO MUCH..etc!

You know to me..this is a definition of the meaning of the word LOSER!

Before you start throwing shit at me that not everyone wants to be a bodybuilder..let me just tell you something...

A girl approaches me asking me about booty exercises...

She wanna have a bigger and rounder butt..ok...right very common thing!

I’m expecting her to say..listen Andrija..I wanna have the best fuckin possible glutes that I can develop..I wanna reach one hundred percent my genetic potential and I wanna build a booty that I’m gonna be so fuckin proud with...

Tell me Andrija..what should I do???

If you Andrija say five I’ll try eight if you say fifteen I’ll push trough seventeen at least...if you say stop I’ll do one more!!!

Where are those people?

Instead I hear I want booty but I need to tell you first I’m very lazy...and I love chocolate...

I understand that it’s fine to hear this shit from a fifty year old lady that never trained..fine!

But if you don’t have that drive when you’re 22 when the fuck you think it’ll come..when you’re 42???

No it won’t and if do come later it will cost you ten times more because then it’s not drive it’s middle age crisis!

If you wanna do fashion do you want to be your maximum and fickin rock or do you wanna be another sad case and a local joke?

I’m not talking you should be like this in all aspects of your life that’s ridiculous..but that one thing that really makes you feel good about yourself,and you’re still suck at it...

When people ask me am I a bodybuilder I say no...why,because I never stood shoulder to shoulder with the real guys..the  best in the world...because I don’t compare myself with shitty wannabe the new Arnold dorks that look like me or similar..I compare myself only with the best!!!

Everybody are fuckin powerlifters,but when I train I lift more then them and I’m not even into that sport..I love bodybuilding and that has nothing to do with strength...

When I was a kid...I asked older guys..hey,what’s good for muscles?

They said protein food or protein powder...

I started reading about it..I figured,protein powder there’s no chance I have enough money to buy,meat yeah sometimes but not in those amounts,milk yeah sure 2-3 liter so..what’s next..eggs!!!

I calculated that I can eat most of my protein from egg whites because that was the only food I could afford it at the time...

So I connected the local farm and I got a free home delivery because you know what I did????

I was drinking 60 egg white A DAY!!!!

You think I didn’t think it was disgusting,you think I wasn’t gagging to throw up..I did!!! 

But have you ever said about something...you’ll do it NO MATTER WHAT IT TAKES???

Am I a fuckin alien?

Where are those fuckin people???

Where are those drummers that practice 12 hours a day like in the movie “Whiplash”

Where are the girls that are ready to go through what that girl played in “Black Swan” to become an exceptional ballerina?

Those people don’t wanna be bodybuilders...singers,doctors,business people....they wanna be the best that they can be...and it’s probably not gonna be the best in the world but at least they know they gave everything they got for something that meant something to them!

Recently I met an very old couple living away from Stockholm being so cute and happy together...

He realized I’m the guy with muscles and he said oh that’s great..you know,when I was young I had muscles too...

I used to be a military guy and actually I was a soldier of the year!

My heart fickin stopped for a second!

That old cute grandpa was once the best in what he did!

You wanna good story for your grandchildren that’s your story..the best soldier of the year..there’s your fuckin story!!!

What story do you have to tell???

That you got really drunk and security threw you out of the club???

That you used to play video games for 24 hours straight with no sleep?

That you watched the whole season on Netflix without getting up from your sofa???

What’s the fuckin story???

How did you spend your two weeks in Vegas that you got for free...by sitting in the hotel room playing video games,or having the best time of your life???

Where is you passion??!

Where is your love?

A Precious Feedback

Hey now❤️ 

I’m talking online with this sweet girl..

We talked about everything,sex was of course one of the subjects..and since there was a few old friends too I was super relaxed about my sex life...not that I’m not super relaxed in front of strangers but it’s sounds more normal🤪

So more and more I talk with a girl and she started opening up about not sex but life generally...

As it usually goes with me,I asked her to meet me and we can talk face to face...and as it usually goes,she said no🤷🏽‍♀️😂🙃

Now,honestly I get shocked when people say yes to that but I didn’t realize why things are like that...

I’m like,I totally understand how I look and no one wants to talk to me,but online at least people come to me and love talking to me..so what’s the difference🤔

I can rape them..sure but I usually suggest some public place and not my basement or woods😅

So the girl came back tomorrow and was like..you know why I don’t want to meet you

I was like..no why?

Cuz I feel intimidated by you being so open about sex,and since I don’t believe I can be like that I feel just..nah,let’s just not meet...

Now guys,you need to understand,the last thing I find interesting about a person is when he or she is exactly like me...

I meet people cuz I find them interesting,not to find my clones..that’s not so fun!

I mean sure I love being me and I definitely will ask you all the uncomfortable questions but you’re not at any point with anyone basically obligated to answer shit...

I have this thing when I from talking something convenient ask you do you swallow or do you spit😬

My question is not really me wanting to know that..sure you can tell me that or oh Andrija just fuck off,but I want to see your reaction and I need a down to Earth person because..

It may seem like I’m very bored and have all the time in the world,but that can’t be further from the truth....

I’m establishing connection between person I’m with and,because if I see too thick wall,I’ll leave you alone because being open with that kind of person can really be very hurtful to that person and that’s mot something I want!

I said it a thousand times..my next wife needs to be not from Serbia,not white and not a sporty person why...because I don’t want people exactly like me it would be too much in my life:)))))

From the bright side the girl I talked before gave me an amazing and honest feedback and that’s also something you can’t get these days so I’m very thankful🙏🏽

So guys if I ask you out..don’t be me..being me is boring,be yourself instead,that’s the only role you can play that’s actually fun😘

Have a nice...Weekend babZ😘😘😘

I was just being nice🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

Hey now:))))

You know me guys..I’m really nice and all,right😄

Well I know,but the thing that’s really important to meis that I try never to judge anyone but rather to understand their points of view...

With that being said...I was talking to a girl online!

Pretty nice girl from India living in Canada,good looking,pretty fun and all.

My live had a few people I know and this one was very new:)

So of course she asked me what’s the weirdest thing you did in sex..I was just as I normally am...

I be like..well my wife was peeing all over me and she fucked me with a dildo🙋🏽‍♀️🙋🏽‍♀️ you know normal shit:)))

All the other present were like..oh boy here we go again😂😂😂

So we talk,I tell her she looks pretty in her profile picture and all,and she’s like...

Yeah,you’re really hot and my type of a guy...you seem funny,your English is good and you have muscles...she goes..

I would totally fuck you😻

Ok,I said that’s so sweet of you to say,but tell me how😈

She goes I’d put the light a bit down but you still need to be able to see...

Me: Your place my place?

She: You’re place I live with..someone so I wouldn’t want an interruption..

Me: Ok great what next?

She: I would strip for you and you would watch but I wouldn’t go all the way just to tease you...

Me: sure I can be into that...and?

Now next thing is a killer☝🏾☝🏾☝🏾

She: I would like to SHIT on your cock with my panties on and grind it!

Ok,now usually I’m the sickest person in the room but this girl was a new level...

Now as I said I don’t wanna judge anyone but instead just go with the flow so I can get to the bottom of it...and ofc to show respect and all..

So I be like..ok,what’s the meaning of “grinding my cock?

She: it’s when I ride it but I would like to SIT on it! She emphasized...

Me:yeah,yeah..ofc you need to sit on it,but when would you shit on it? Before you sit on it or after!

That’s the point where my mental disorders kicked in and as always I couldn’t assume that she actually made a spellcheck mistake and instead of...

“I would like to SHIT on your cock with my panties on and grind it” she meant...

I would like to SIT on your cock with my panties on and grind it🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️

She’s like..I just wanna sit on it,ok!!!

Me: ok,ok,so for you it doesn’t matter whether you shit before or after..you just need to be out at some point..

She:ok wait...

Me(interrupting): well listen I’m not really into that but sure I mean why not...I’m a bit concerned about the smell,because it’s a lot and I couldn’t maybe get hard...And what if it’s loose let’s say you had Thai food a day before it would be spicy....I continued to elaborate....

She: ok,shut the fuck up and listen to me now....there will be no shitting on your cock in my panties..anywhere ok..no,shit...SIT...I just wanna sit not shit,ok..can you understand that🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬

I be like wow,wow,hold your horses lady...it’s not me who brought that up,ok😾

She: I didn’t either,I made a stupid spellcheck mistake but you continued like some fuckin weirdo😡

Me: I’m so fuckin sorry for trying to make you not feel like a freak..I’m not even into that shit👿

She: listen,go fuck yourself🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

So she left my live leaving me feeling guilt for not a damn thing😂😂😂

Can you see my struggle with the world here🤨

Anyways I cried my eyes out how hard I laughed after that...I mean I guess you should just be mean to people and nothing else🤪🤪🤪

Anyways..have a great fuckin day my lovZ😂😘❤️

What’s love 💕 💕💕

Hello my lovZ😍

I talk to people I met people and they all say different shit about different shit,and I’m fine with that,I love verity,different options and all...

But when we talk love I believe it’s pretty clear what it means,right?

People say love very often but don’t actually mean love...

You can’t really love things...I believe.

You can love something that your dead grandmother gave you but then it’s not about that item it’s about the person,right?

I love fish..do you love fish as people who have dogs love dogs or you like eating fish?

However when we even talk about an actual love between two people we don’t really know what that means..and I believe that’s the huge problem in today’s marriages too!

Loving and being in love with someone are two totally different things and let clear this out of the way right away what’s what!

Being in love is very strong but not very lasting sensation,at least for most people...

Sure you have some people being in love with one person for like 20 years and that can be very frustrating but even that is not a true love!

Loving someone is loving their personal characteristics!

People who report are in love they say many times..he or she is an asshole,do do this,never pay attention to that,not very loyal,not hard working,not even smart or good looking...but I’m in love with him..or her,right?

That’s exactly what’s the meaning being in love!

But when you truly love someone for who that person is...you love them with your heart and you appreciate who they are and what they do and say!

The greatest way to find out whether you love someone is to..well,break up!

We tend to connect love with ownership,and that’s a very ugly thing we do!

I always say..I don’t have a wife!

I have arms and decent size dick,that’s all!

I don’t owe her neither she does me..we live together and share huge part of our lives together...that’s it!

If we divorce each other I definitely going to love her still..you know why..

Because I fuckin LOVE her....

I live who that woman is...I love how she thinks,how she struggles with life,how she deals with her demons and problems,how she loves me and everyone else..I love her persona!

What’s the difference if she or me or both of us decide to separate...NOTHING!

She still gonna be that great person I know..and I’ll love her just as much if not more!

I don’t know about all my exes but most of them still love me in their own way..and me...

I love every single one of them and I’m just so happy when I hear that they’re happy...because I wasn’t just in love with them I loved them and therefore I still do even now when we’re not together because in their own way they are all extraordinary people and I’m nothing but grateful for spending a certain period of my life with them🙏🏽

So being in love is very powerful and it’s beautiful too..but TRUST ME..it’s not enough for a successful life together...

You need to love who your partners represent and their ways...not that you necessarily need to agree on every subject....God no,but you need to love their way of dealing that disagreement with you or with people generally!

Also a good example of love is when guys say I love women!!!

I be like..buddy you’re like the worst women hater ever...you just happen to be straight so you like fucking them...

You know how I love women?

Whenever there’s a birthday party or a dinner party or any event basically with mixture of men and women all the fuckin guys make the guy’s crowd and talk shit that I have a zero fickin interest for while every single subject that women talk I’m super interested in!

I love to spend time with women,listen to them,talk to them,be there for them...and of course on top of that’s I loooveee to fuck them!

But even sex wise..my sex is as good as I believe my woman feels it was good!

If I think she’s not too happy about it I’ll be devastated..I’ll aks,I’ll beg for a feedback what went wrong because I wanna make her cum so loud that neighbors need to warn us about the screaming😂😂😂

Soooook many girls tell me that guy’s fuck them and as soon as they cum they need to sleep or stop talking to them...

We I recently told my boss about this thing I always had...

If a girl ever wanted to keep me for herself she would just be needed to give me some pussy...

After that I’m like her puppy she can use me as a fucking doormat😂😂😂

That’s how I love women not just like their pussies...

Anyways enough about me..what’s your stance on this shit..am I right am I wrong...of course you wouldn’t dare to give an opinion on anything🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

Oh well,it’s fine..I still love you❤️😘

The purpose of life is LV❤️

Hey ya all❤️❤️❤️

So as you may have noticed I talk a lot..I mean here I write a lot but not because I’m shy to say these things but because I can’t get enough of it:))))

So some of my clients noticed that and they are very willing to talk to me besides training...

A couple of days ago one girl said...

“You know Andrija,everybody say they’re good when you ask them but when you say it I believe you really are not just good you’re great..how?

I was like,well I’m not always great but I learned to feel great even about the low days..

“Ok...so what’s the purpose of life”? She asked..

Hmmmm...

So my answer is..a free vacation!

Let’s say you won a ticket to Las Vegas and staying for two weeks in a hotel.

So you get to go to a place where is pretty nice to be and see,have a decent hotel,not too fancy not the worst shit and that’s it!

Once you’re there,what do you do?

Sure there’s gonna be people who also won the similar prices only they get to live in the perfect the fanciest hotel there is...

There’s also going to be some homeless people or some people who have hostel and share a room with a few people...

You have your two weeks and that’s all there is!

How you gonna spend your days?

You can be very happy for that you didn’t have to share your room with people or for not being homeless,or you can regret for not being with those big shots with Ferraries and shit...

You can sit in a room all day and not experience LV or you can go out and try to enjoy!

You can be completely by yourself or you can try to make friends in a restaurant,café,club or whatever...

You can try to fuck something or even fall in love with someone or you can say..it’s too little time for that!

One thing is for sure tho...

You can’t bring anything back from LV...

What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas..and that’s all there is!

So you can choose to have a great and unforgettable time over there or you can decide to spend it in being miserable...

In two weeks you’re leaving that paradise regardless of your decision and exactly like those with less money and more money!!!

And that my ladies and gentleman is our lifespan!

We don’t get all to live an amazing and luxurious life,but there’s always gonna be people who have less and way more...

Regardless of what happens on that journey we are all going back to the Mother Earth and we definitely can’t bring anything with us!

What we make happen in our lives is all there is!

This is why I always try to emphasize that we should NEVER do stuff by the cost of our happiness!

Of course we won’t even be happy in Vegas every single day,but if we decide for a journey that will give us bad vibes,anxiety and not having time to breath..than that journey wasn’t made for us!

Someone will probably be capable of doing the sam exact thing with having everything under control but if that’s not you..fuck it,leave it!

You only have one life..just like me❤️

Have a great Friday my lovZ😘