Gettin along with your in laws☝🏽️

This is the oldest subject in the world,but it never gets old..right..cuz there are always new people,your friends,your relatives,your colleagues..that are getting married and get so enthusiastic about it...that you just wanna vomit😂😂😂

And don't get me wrong...you're not vomiting just over them being enthusiastic about their in laws,but also about the fact that their shit brings you back when you were all excited about it and thought...omg,we gonna get along perfectly....ahahhahahha....how stupid we are😂😂😂

First thing there is no such a thing as good in laws ok..you realize that...you'll live longer..

Just think how difficult it is to find ONE....one fuckin person in this world that you'll be able to live with all your life..huh??? It's like one in a gazillion...

Now do the math..just think for a second...what are the odds that that ONE you were searching all your life...happen to have a perfect family:)))))

Guys I'm telling you...it's impossible...and as soon as you realize that,the sooner  you'll start feeling better about yourself,about your marriage..and shit...

So...not getting along with your in laws is fine...it doesn't make you a bad person...it makes you a fuckin normal person...and also I'm not saying here your in laws are evil too..it's just..

...imagine yourself living in a ten story apartment building..all those neighbors were given to you..,you never asked for them..you haven't picked them one by one..they are just there...

Now just think...someone tells you that some random neighbor will start behaving like your best buddy..

That's how you feel when you get in laws!!!

Like situation that you get into with your in laws are so close and intimate..that you want to do that with your friends,your family not with some old farts you met a month ago...

Sure,you can avoid those events but..eventually someone will bring the question up...why are you avoiding them?

And also don't forget that when the kids are in the story...it's kinda rude to just avoid their grandparents like that..so you're pretty much forced one way or another:)))

The best way to keep that relationship at some decent and human level...in my mind is to have a colleague relationship with them...

Like,we're here together...you didn't ask for it neither did I and yet we're here..together...so let's not make this harder than it already is...

Let's limit our time together,let's organize everything so we show respect of eachothers time..and let's not to try to be best buddies cuz probably we won't be.

So with that thing said in the beginning you have the greatest chance of remaining the relationship with your in laws...well...decent...at the best!

See yaaaaa:)))))