Okay...i'm married for eight...ish years...don't realy know exactly..but yes...it's not tht i've been married for ever but still...after a while you get more aware of what that unity looks like...hehe..comparing to the picture you had before that😂😂😂
Yeah...lol...cuzz i know there are alooot a you out there having totaly different perception of what marriage is ...
Firstly...there's this description from serbia...explaining marriage like a large bowl filled with shit...and only on the very surface lies a thin layer of honey...so...they say...all that honey,you eat in a first few months..,and for the rest of your life you eat shit😂😂😂
Well...ofc it's exaggerated to be funny but there is some truth to tht...
I think that single people don't realy know what are the crutial stuff when they look for a potential life companion...
First of all,try to live with somebody...you know to live...same appartment or a house...everyday!!!
And then imagine doing that over and over to the rest of your life...:)))
Now i'm not trying to scare you..but alot of people get married live together for while and then start feeling claustrophobic...as they don't have enough space nor air to breathe..they feel caged...
So once you know...you start drinking more,or taking drugs...eating like a pig or whatever you have as a valve for all that rage u acumulated...
So as soon as u know you start cheating...and u get tht feeling back for a second...you feel alive again...u feel sexy and desirable...and then...
You devorce...you...start going to the gym...finaly you are living fully..you're free...no more those waisted hours and hours of emptiness...now it's about yiu!!!!
Tgen you meet a person...everything sound good..looks good...now...you know that this is a bingo...this is it!!!
So you move to his or her place or you bring thm at your place...start living your life...but....
After a while...you're getting a bit of deja vu...right...oh fuck yiu say...what did i do wrong this time...i thought i got it...whatta fuck went wrong...
Well my friend...you did nothing wrong...you ARE WRONG!!!
Your picture of what marriage should be was so fucking wrong to begin wth...that you couldn't do any fucking thing other than failure...
So insted of dreaming of having a maid..better think of how you gonna split house works with your hubby or wife...instead of looking for a girl with a perfect ass...think about is she gonna be a goid mother for your children...instead of having your pussy wet on his fancy car..think will he be able to sell that shit and buy a family car so he can drive your kids to school and go to supermarket...
Remember secret of a good marriage isn't happiness it's stability..paulo coelho said this and he couldn' be more right...
It's easy to be with someone ehen everything is nice and pink...try when the shit hits tha fan...whn life challenges you..put you on a test...try then to stay saine and still keep doing your shit...
When you pay a hooker you want that impression that she's s magical women...and that her shit doesn' stinks...but guess wht...every person's shit stinks and no gucci or prada can change that...so if you don't love who and what yiur wife is...you'll not gonna see her as a sexual being after you get in that toilet after she had her period and diarrhea at the same time...and yes she can clean it as much as she wants it's still gonna smell....
If you find these things disgusting...you probably have your stucked at the level of a high school kid so untill you find the way to make that disappear from you...don't get into anything...cuz what you thinking about is utopia...the place tht doesn' exist...what i'm talking about is REALITY!!!
That tank full of shit with a bit honey on top is not marriage...it's life...it get harder as we get older...but the weaker ones try to blame that on everything and anything just so they can find the reason to get away from everything...
Now instead of waiting for u to respond...since apperently it takes a huge pair of balls to say anything....i'll say it for you...
Ok...andrija...you've been married for a few years and you already know the ultimate secret of marriage???
Yras and no...yes,i have learned aloooot from my marriage but i also had a few long term relationship before...and i learned from them too...i used to love some other girls,and they loved me..and we had such a great time together and i know that those relationships and thlose girls shaped me to some point into a man i am today...and i'm so thankful for that 🙏
Girls...when you're imagining your man don' think of a James Bond figure...al dressed up,charming and unpredictable...but think of a man...a lifetime friend..a dad for your kids and guys...don't visuelize some jenna jameson trophy bimbo..with who u can brag in front of your retarded friends...but try to search for a honest women that's ready to love you on your good and shitty days...a mom,a lady a role model but most important a person with who u would like to grow old💍💍💍
Have a great weekend biaches and don't forget that i love you...all of you❤️
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