Pros And Cons Of Monogamy...

We've all reached some point of our lives that brought us to the question...is it in our nature to live in monogamy...is that right or wrong...of course,if you are married and you cheet that's wrong but to me that doesn't have much to do with an issue of monogamy as much as it's about honesty...you're not honest person and that's why you cheet...whether you're not honest to other people or wich i belive in most cases...you were not honest to yourself...

What i'm talking about here is agreed polygamy...no lies no hidings...just totaly different aproach of seeing all that..
At this point,where we are now...i belive that it's crutial to have a person you love...not that you're in love with,that's shallow...to truely love someone and also very important...to be loved back from that same person...
I belive that when you at some age that you feel the need for the relationship and you're constantly not having one..you are not able to bring the best in you...to you or to anybody else...of course you can't...you need love to be fully funktionable...if you're not realy disturbed individual and you feel nothing...but that's pathology:-)

But...the next question is basicly asked by it self...why then...when you get the right person and you're finaly settled...why the fuck...the sex gets less passionate...because...if you're tellin' me that you have the same passion fucking same person for ten years as you had the firs night...you are a fuckin' liar,or worse...you're in denial!
So if it's right to have same person for whole your life,why the sex doesn't get better and better...i mean...people who claims that polygamy is good use this as an exampel...they say that our nature tells us that we need to change our sexual partners often so we achive the same excitement over and over...and let me tell you,they do have an argument right there...but...should we reliy only on our basic instinct...let me give you another exampel...

Let's say you are male and you have a sister and let's say the two of you were separated at very early age...and then you meet when you are like...20-25 years old...would you be able to have sex...of course you would...would it feel good...followed by our instinct...probably yes...is that the proof that incest is good...hell no!it's actualy proof that it's totaly idiotic to blindly follow your instincts.

So if you ask me....as i said at this point..i truly belive that monogamy is crutial for our devolopment as human species...couse when the most of us have somebody to love and be loved...we'll soon realize that...same way you love that one person,you're actualy able to love everyone...not mabey with the same intensety but still to consider other people as your family members...a world family...that would be wonderfull...wouldn't it ...to have people care for one another instead of carring for just a few...to help others for no other reason but just feeling good about it...perfect ha?!


Finaly...when we reach that level of awarenes we will already raelize that having monetary system and everything spining around possesions....then we will realize that our husbands and our wifes are not realy ours...and that we don't need to be upset about our partner is having sex with another person in our presents or not because it's all gonna be about funn...

Yeah,i know it sounds sick but think about it just for a second...what kind of entertaintment has been given to us by nature...tv...that's illusion,partying...bullshit...alchohol,drugs...that's all here to give us a phoney impression of satisfaction but the true activity given by nature is sex it's just that we need a long way to go before we realize that and accept it in a humble and non-dirty way...i know,i know you gonna give those swingers as an exampel and yeah...it's a great exampel...thay actualy claim that having that only improyved their relationship...
And please,don't judge by their looks or profile..just try to see them as people...

My point is...the fact that you could fuck a sexy stranger five times a night and with your husband or your wife you get quite enough with once or two times a week is not that you're a bad person it's just that we're not developed enough to live that kind of lifestyle..but while we waiting i might persuade my wife to have a threesome sometime in the future...and don't even dare to think that i'm thinking only about bringing onother girl to our bed...if we do that,it's gonna be once with a girl and once with a guy...four is kind crowd...but as i said...if we ever decide that:-)