Change them instead☝🏾☝🏾☝🏾

When I wanna about to compete some years back I was in pretty good shape and after some workout I remember I was posing a bit in a locker room at my gym..and I saw a guy in the mirror as he was about ti say something but he didn’t so I turned around and said...YES?

He start stuttering but managed to say..you have the most amazing body I’ve ever seen...

It was probably one of the most genuine compliments I’ve ever gotten from a stranger...

However this is not the main reason why I’m telling you this...

I was telling this story to my gay friend and told him that it felt really honest even though I don’t think that guy was gay..I said...

My friend got a bit upset and said..what difference does it make...

I was like..well,you maybe gay but you’re still male..and I know how men works...

Once you’re horny for someone you’re instantly seeing that person as more beautiful than he or she really is...

And I’m not talking about lying and dishonesty..no,you actually perceive that person as prettier..like a lot:))

So,now to the point of the day😃😃😃

Girls...I keep seeing you trying to bring your body to some model of perfection,you’re lips,your boobs,your butts,stomach..whatever...

Sure this is great and I’m not against it..but trust me..the problem is not in you..it’s in us...guys!!!

We see a hot piece of ass..we think about all the benefits that it may bring us if we fuck it..but we don’t feel shit...FEEL,remember this word!

Once you make a guy feel seduction,trust me...you’ll be his queen!!!

So instead of just making yourself pretty...try to make them horny and being into you...it’s a winning solution trust me:))))

Just a little heads up...in my advice here there’s nothing about girls being submissive..because...tell me one example of a guy went crazy over a submissive girl...none I can promise you...

So....flirt,flirt,flirt...

An innocent flirt that wasn’t supposed to end with kiss,sex or anything like that..that’s why it’s innocent...it’s just good for the soul!

And don’t let me hear any bullshit comments such as..yeah but that man I’m flirting with might think that I wanna....

Don’t even need to finish that sentence..FUCK HIM...who give a flying fuck what he thinks...it’s not about him it’s about you!!!!

Love you❤️

Depression

Hi everyone:)

  I figured something recently and I'm not positive about it but still worth of mentioning...

There's this word here in Sweden that sounds LAGOM which you can translate to MODERATE and basically it means that but in Sweden it's about the culture!

See here everything is about lagom...if you dress you need to dress lagom,if you eat you should eat lagom,if you laugh laugh lagom...if you fuck you should probably follow lagom-rule too...

Ok,when it comes to drinking people here don't wanna drink lagom..either you get shit faced or you sit home and watch TV..so don't bother of going to a bar if you work tomorrow...

So why is this like that..I was wandering...

I believe I figured it out...

To start from drinking..people drink here not to let loose a bit and be social,no..they drink to stop thinking...

The only reason why anyone wants to stop thinking is a severe depression!

When you're sober you think and then you're worried and completely scared and unhappy...so when you get waisted you think you're happy but what actually happens is that you just stop thinking about shit that gives you stress...

And that feeling alone is so relaxing that you actually tripping your happy...

Now imagine how amazing would be to be actually happy not just switched off...

Yeah but how:))

Yesterday I posted a quote..it looks like this...

So...

You get me here right:))))

Someone,somewhere at some point in your life told you that it's totally ok to be mediocre...

That person did not do any good for you but actually did a pretty harmful thing...

That person convinced you that being a fuckin loser is a good thing...and not just that you shouldn't be sad about..but you should actually make yourself happy about it!

We were born fuckin winners..and that's why you can be happy in being just ok..you wanna fuckin shine,you wanna be that person that is amazing at what you do you wanna fuckin rock!!!

But you know why you don't???

Because you don't try hard enough...and why you don't try...

Because you persuaded yourself that it's ok to be a worthless piece of shit...so you simply don't have that mindset of a winner!!!

Because you were told that it's fine to be pathetic...you never identify yourself with a fuckin rockstar..noooo

You identify yourself with a bunch of losers that didn't do a single thing in their life like a winner...because it's fine to suck,right...

Well it's not

It sucks when you're not great in anything!

The evil loser that told you that it's fine to suck thought you that life sucks and start adjusting to that asap...

You see you,me,your brother your friend..we were all made to be awesome in at least on single thing...

When you do something you're good at you have the feeling of satisfaction..but in order to discover what's that thing you're so good at...you need to be unsatisfied with averigeness...

That's how you get the strength that's necessary to keep on searching and finding your passion...

You need to hate the fact that you're average at something so either you try harder or drop it and start doing something else..

I'm constantly mentioning those poor morons that apply for IDOL and they sing terribly...but never mind it's not important to win right...yeah ask a winner that same question!

So my point is...if you want something..go and fuckin kill it..don't try it...OWN IT!!!

Be awesome,be amazing and when you do...you'll have no problem in loving other people's success too!

Hater is never ever a successful person only an average two-time loser..and you can all do better than that!

Love ya❤️

The feminine side💅🏽💅🏽💅🏽

Hi there😚

As you may noticed,from recently I started painting my nails and whenever people ask me why,either I say I like it or that I'm embarrassing my feminine side but I'd like to explain it a bit more why is this so important to me and my general point of view on this...

See they discovered that left hemisphere of the brain is feminine and the right is masculine and this thing has absolutely nothing with the fact of who's having a vagina and cock..it's about something completely else...

Now,almost all of us have left and right side of the brain so we all have masculine and feminine way of perception,but one of them is usually overwhelmed by tge other and this is where the shit starts rolling...

Right side,masculine one is based on fact,number and generally rational ways of understanding the word!

Left one..the feminine one is based on emotions,gut feeling and spiritual perception of everything...

To me personally,both sides are important and shouldn't be excluded but my point..or one of them is that..this world and way we live is still highly masculine!

Because it's still a belief that the more masculine you are,the stronger you are,which to my knowledge can't be further from the truth...

To me,you're strongest if you have mastered your capabilities of using and embracing both of your sides at the right time.

So I grew up in a highly masculine surroundings so for everything that was feminine,to me was unknown or better said..I didn't know how to process it...

Which is tge huuuge problem everywhere in the world basically...where you can easily find a guy who's got balls to get into a fight with whom ever you want..but if you ask that guy to talk about his emotions it will be extremely difficult and uncomfortable for him...

This is because they also discovered that if you.. just for the conversation sake,cut of one two hemisphere of the brain to a person that person would soon be able to function normally cuz brain's got that ability to take over other area's job...so from that point a person would function normally..well almost...

They say that that person couldn't be able to see one side of our faces,but for that person it would be normal...

That person would never miss that other side of our faces because he or she wouldn't know that it exists!

A small digression I need to make..this is also I'm very supportive in gay people...

To me they are just people but this phenomenon of people hating gays is exactly because of their perpetual rejection of their left/feminine way of thinking...

To them...gay is confusing and uncomfortable because they still haven't activated their left sides!

It's like if you take a guy without one of his hemispheres that I mention before and simply present him our other side of our face...it would be extremely uncomfortable and hard to understand it!

I don't really believe that painting nails is even a feminine thing actually but..for so many years it was to me...so now I'm learning myself to simply understand that I was thought wrong and I want to fix it!

One more thing for the end of this one... and it's about masculine side...

Masculine si rational and based on facts something that we can see hear or touch...

Therefore if you shut down completely your feminine side...you won't be able to see or feel on more thing than we can't prove it exists...

You won't be able to feel love....

You'll be blind to it,wouldn't miss it and even if someone is giving it to you abundantly...you wouldn't know how to deal with it,respect it or let alone how to give it back...

So remember....LOVE❤️

Thanks for reading😘

The female power💥💥💥

Hey everyone😘

I just wanna say,I'm finally home and I was missing Stockholm and my apartment and my street and everything that goes with it:)))

Today I wanna write about how much power women have over men and how stupidly a very few  of them are actually using it...

Ok,so basically this is going to be a detailed description of the game a certain woman played in order to seduce me which was silly to begin with cuzz all she needed to say was..I need a dick:))) but then I wouldn't have this story to tell😌😌😌

But anyhow if you're uncomfortable with reading sex stuff you might skip this one😘

So at the time I was working as a PT in Serbia and was a regular retard...

A girl that I used to know came in and asked to start training but also that she wants me to train her..etc..

Long story short,we started with sessions everything was fine,quite fun since she's a very humble woman and it's also kinda important to say EXTREMELY HOT!

Since we knew each other before it was a smooth relationship...

Once she stayed a bit longer at the gym and I offered her a cup of coffee to be polite cuzz trust me..in my mind she was untouchable for a schmuk like me..

We had a coffee and again very easy conversation..

Soon she suggested a coffee outside the gym..I totally haven't even assumed anything...cuz also she was always emphasizing that she can't digest men that after one smile or a short talk actually think they can simply pull out their dick and fuck...

So I played along...

She called me her friend and I was fine with it but when she again touched that subject on how some guys got offended for being called A FRIEND...I just said well..I kinda understand...

She goes why..

I said...listen I've been A FRIEND to so many women which basically means that I'm fun to hang out with and take a chill but when she needs a dick,she'll go to someone with an actual dick..as I surgically removed mine...

I just said there's rarely a male-female friendship..cuz usually one would like to fuck the other one:)))

She said ok,but I can't be with someone that I can't imagine as a sexual object..

I was like..ok,so you compare your friends with..let's say your brother...right,you drink coffee with brother but you don't see him as a potential fuck right?

Right she said..

Well,let's say you're naked with your brother would you fuck him then..of course not..but this is my point...

You take a coffee with your guy friend naked and if nothing happens..you two are nothing then friends:)))

We laughed of course since the whole conversation was covered with provocative comments and giggles..so that was pretty much it...

Two days later I was at my friend's house having a party prior to some bigger party..it was someone's birthday or something...

A phone rang..it was her...

Andrija I wanna check whether we're friends or not.....

I swear to God...I stopped feeling my legs instantly and I lost voice...

Somehow I managed to pull some words out of who knows where..so she asked me,where should she pick me up...

Finally we were in her car and on our way to my place...

Of course I told my friends to all go fuck them selfs and die cuz in my life there's one simple policy...

Hoes before bros💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾..and every other fuckin irrelevant fucker in this world...so if I have an opening for fuck..I'll get up from my own fuckin open heart surgery and leave🔥🔥🔥

So we're finally at my place I'm trembling as I'm about be fucked not the other way around😂😂😂

So I made us coffee and was like..so,was this a joke?

She goes..nope,could you bring me a towel and leave the room for 30 seconds...

I did as I was told...and I remember I was in a bathroom thinking..what if I show up inside naked and it candid camera or something:)))

Luckily for me..that wasn't the case...

I came back to the room...I saw her in every possible way more gorgeous than ever..and I remember seeing all her clothes everywhere in the room...

After a sip of coffee she got up to said..no..I don't think you're my friend at all...

Took my towel and threw it away..took off hers and sat in my lap...

When I said I felt like I'm about to be fucked..well my dear readers that's exactly what happened..she fucked my brains out...

It was a sex of a century and I'll remember it for the rest of my life...

After that we were seeing each other time to time ficked like mad and simply enjoyed our time:)

Once we were talking about when we realized that there's an attraction going on between us...

I said well..when you told me you wanna check out if we're friends or not..I kinda realized that we probably gonna fuck...

She was laughing her eyes out...

I was like what,when did you assumed...

She was like oh honey..I didn't assumed anything...

On our second workout when you were helping me with my exercise I got wet and decided I'm gonna be fucking your like a little fuckin school boy...and I always get what I want..so:))))

Female power is the greatest power among men and only frighten and insecure women are not aware of that...

If you sit in a corner of a club being all nice and pretty,waiting to be picked by men...

You basically took the role of a fuckin victim and submissive party..which is not what any woman should do...

Fuck society,and fuck moral norms..both were made by men to dominate the world...

You dominate...

You rule...

Today❤️🔥💯

The best feeling ever...

Hello my people😌

Here I am in my friend's apartment spending my last day in Serbia,time for me to come back and honestly I've never had this kind of mixed feelings...

In the beginning I need to say..Sweden is my home...I love the place,I miss my Stockholm,my apartment,my gym and my people over there...so that's the part that haven't changed...but

Out of all my visits before,this one left the greatest impact on me emotionally and I have only one explanation for that....

Never in my life before I haven't felt loved by this much people as I have in my small town...

Every single fuckin person I met every person I hugged,I talked to made me feel so loved and so normal that honestly..never before I felt less of a freak than this couple of weeks here...

Listen..I'm not gonna talk about Serbia or Sweden here because I really don't believe that's the problem...

Simply..I was born in Serbia and so many people know me personally and know that I'm not dangerous or violent so of course that for them it's ten times easier to hear me out and to feel relaxed beside me...

Still..as I said..I can't ignore how good it feels when people see me and genuinely smile at me and give me a hug...

Regardless of how independent I want to be...feeling of being loved is magical😌😌😌 

Maybe I simply learned how to ignore the negativity so that that kind of people can't really get to me no longer..but still I lived every second of it...

On top of that...women...

Oh my fuckin God..

So many of them each beautiful and sexy...saying stuff I NEVER thought Ill hear from that many women,that I also never felt more attractive in my entire fuckin life😍😍😍

And let me explain something very clear..people over here know me very fuckin well...

They know I don't have a million bucks on my account,they know very well my marriage is bulletproof and I have got some" inappropriate offers" or anything...

Ok,I did get a few but it's fine:))))

So the deal was pretty much...hey,you're hot as fuck and I'm just gonna say it..don't need anything in return...

This thing I got from so many women that honestly I believe I probably gonna die very soon so God is giving me a fraction of the feeling that beautiful and cool people have constantly😂😂😂

Seriously guys..I loved every second of it❤️

Shit..even my wife comes to me at the swimming pool,climbs over me telling me...you're so fuckin beautiful💞💞💞

Honestly at that point I thought she fucked someone the night before and she's playing a horny wife now😂😂😂

So can't explain why,and can't explain why now,why me..but compliments were showering me...

From..you're the most desirable man here,to the more exotic such as..Andrija,call a cab and I'll start sucking you on our way to your place🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

People are giving me compliments for my nails for fuck sake...who could have assume that💅🏽💅🏽💅🏽

For some of you who don't follow me on social media I've started doing my nails don't know why....

It started as a fun post with a pride flag to support pride festival that recently happened in Stockholm..and I just figured that nails without nail polish are so fuckin boring😂😂😂

So I just wanna say that it was the best and the most emotional vacation ever..I wanna say a huge thank you not just to people in Serbia but to all the people who don't see me as a freak and a monster,because regardless of how tough and resistant I try to be...

Proofing people I'm not a monster is extremely energy consuming,humiliating and makes me very sad:-/

Luckily I have my people from Serbia,Sweden and from all over the world that I know they love me,because I feel their love and I love them even more❤️❤️❤️

Thank you🙏🏽

The greatest secret of a relationship...

Heya😊

Guys...I'm still over here in Serbia,still having fun,meeting people constantly and enjoying overall:)))

As I said I talk to people constantly and really people over here know me very well so they are very open about their lives,relationships,marriages etc...

You have a relationship or you're on a verge to step into one..or you maybe at that point where you feel you suppose to upgrade your current status to something more meaningful...this is my advice to you....

There's no relationship without trust!

People try to ignore or deny the fact that they don't trust their partners,and that's very,very dangerous...

You maybe love them,but love is a must that everyone knows about...trust is important yeah,but it's not a must...or?

When I say trust you gotta think cheating right..and that's definitely a huge part but unfortunately in this world we've been so wrapped around money that people are willing share their time,their bodies,even their living space but not their cash 💰💰💰

How many couples you know with mutual economy?

Yeah,yeah....now you gonna tell me all the bullshit about how no one needs my money to love me..etc...but not really...or..not fully!

People who never cheat and never share their money are basically people who don't trust anyone and don't really get the pleasure in fuking to begin with!

So they're not faithful cuz of their principles...they're faithful cuz they're not sexual...

People who would rather have their wife fucking someone than to share their money are people who don't really love!

And I'm not talking about their wifes here..I'm saying they don't love...anything and anyone!

Love towards money is not really love...it's fear...and I've said this a million times...

You can't love while you're afraid!

Fear is way power feeling than love simply because it's connected to our instinct for survival!

People who don't trust their partners with their money,don't love their partners..they maybe like them..but that's it

So what I'm saying here is not like..hey just make your bank account your mutual account and start living a dream..no!

I'm saying that if you more trust your parents with your money then your wife..your witnessing a disaster!

So what do you do,right?

Yeah well,you talk!

You sit your partner down and say...I don't trust you with my money and if I this doesn't change I can't be with you!

So you two together make your way to the surface of the problem!

Because maybe your partners didn't do any single thing that indicates he or she is a fucker..maybe...

You have a trust issues?!...

If you have them..you don't need a relationship but rather help...

If you already have a relationship..get help,because without trusting someone you'll never be able to be happy!

This is also why is so hard to make such a close relationship with someone once you started building your career and you already made cash...

When you're young you don't have shit so it's easy to share your EVERYTHING with someone..but later on..not so much:-/

Listen this is not the only thing relevant but I'm telling you..

You don't trust someone with your money..don't start building your future with that person!

Wait,work on it...trust me..it will pay off❤️

Hello My love ❤️

Hey My Love❤️

Hey the most beautiful woman I've met:)

It's been a while now and I just wanna give you a quick update on you,on me,on us..

We met over fifteen years ago at the club I used to work...

Your smile made me feel helpless and your eyes made me go crazy over you..

You told me we should go after my work somewhere to be alone and we did..

We made love...

It was beautiful...

U slept over and left...

At the time I was a guy who needed to put a label on everyone!

I was weak...

You were strong...

I never even try to do that shit with you...

You were the craziest and strongest woman I'll ever meet and I knew you won't accept any fucking label...

You were free...

Time passed by and loved talking to you on the phone,smsing you and simply having your in my life...

I literally called you..My Love😍

Time to time you came to me,we went for a walk,had a coffee...we couldn't stop talking,we couldn't stop laughing...

We never made love again...

I loved who you are I knew we couldn't be together at time so even you slept over at my place I didn't even tried to change something that was so beautiful....

I loved you...

They say some pain hurts you and some pain changes you...

One morning a phone rang..

It was my mom...

She told me you died in a car accident..

That event changed me...

Your love changed me..

Your smile changed me...

Your death changed me...for ever...

So many years went by,but there's still not a single day to pass by that I don't think of you at least for a second...

I still have your picture in my room

They say that time heals everything but I still miss you as the day you left..

Yesterday your sister and I met...

I was so nervous...

For the most part to look at her eyes since you guys look alike so much...

Once we sat down and I saw her beautiful eyes that reminded me of you I couldn't stop looking at them....

We couldn't stop crying...

It was so beautiful and so emotional and so necessary...

I miss you everyday...

I'll never stop mourning for you death...

I'll never stop celebrating your life...

I'll never stop saying THANK YOU to life that brought you to me that evening...

I'll never stop loving you...

You will never die as long as I live...My Love ❤️