Hey guyZâ€ïž
I just need to say that super-summer is here and Iâm so grateful because it really is nice to have this sun and heat during summer....
I donât like that very much and I hide from it as much as possible but it definitely gives a great vibe to everything:)))
Today Im writing about what it means to live with someone.
Many people are in a relationship or they were in a relationship so they know what it feels like,but also so many people are not and never experienced it so they donât really have a picture of what itâs like:)))
Now,Iâm happily married to my wife for 10-11 year now..we know each other at least 4-5 before that so itâs a long time...
How did we found each other..honestly Iâd love to reveal some amazing pattern that people can follow but I cannot...
Itâs was a pure luck...
She used to stay in her grandmaâs house on summertimes and I was asked to work as a security guard in a brand new club 200m from where her grandmother lived...And thatâs where we first met...
Now if thatâs not luck I donât know what is...
I would say the universe gave me the chance to meet her and I havenât really even used that chance but luckily one of us has the balls so she approached me first...
But everything like this is just fun and games...LIVING TOGETHER WITH SOMEONE...thatâs a different dimension!!!
When we started living together we constantly fought about everything...
So we needed to first set the rules of arguments...to make them more constructive and beneficial for us instead of just telling each other to suck dick:)
Like when youâre living with someone you become one...regardless of how bad you may donât want that but still...if nothing people are identifying you now as a couple and thatâs nice,but it can also be very frightening and giving you the feeling of losing yourself...
This part was probably more of an issue for my wife than me because I used to have super long relationships before her and I was always identified as someoneâs other half..so for me itâs nothing new...
This is why I constantly advise young people to have a few relationships before the big relationship...you need to know what itâs like...
Although many people make a horrible mistake and this is specific for girls and women...they stay away from sex until they find someone who wants to be with them in a relationship...
Heheheh...thatâs like if you say..if I donât have a Bill Gates house I refuse to sleep indorse...
No...if you donât have Bill Gatesâs house you still need a place to live..because itâs way more basic that having a super property with a pool and tennis courts...
You donât get sex for long enough youâre becoming weird,extremely bitter,asocial and uncomfortable to hang out with...and one thing I know is that nobody likes hanging out with that kind of people....
You know how many times Iâve heard people say...oh I just wanna move to an island so I never have to deal with people again....thatâs the first and strongest indicator that person didnât get any fuck for very long time!!!!
Relationships is amazing...but sex is a must,and again everyone especially ladies!!!!
When I say SEX I mean you canât just fuck you need to cum otherwise it was just your service to the person that came,made you horny and left!!!!
So try to stay normal while you are not in a relationship but once you get one...Let me give you a piece of advice...
Work on it!!!
It takes so much work and so much energy that itâs gonna be sick to the bone...
This is also why you need to stay humble and sexually active before relationship...being for too long without intimacy makes you selfish..itâs your defense mechanism...
Selfish people wonât have the energy to work on their relationship because they gonna have a super hard time of switching their brains from ME to US...itâs hard...
One of the most crucial things of course is LOVE...
You wonât work on your relationship if you donât love that person..because everything else will not give you that energy...
If your drive for staying in a relationship is..omg Iâm too old,I need to have someone,I need to have kids,I need to have financial support...youâre so fucked,because trust me..youâll give up very soon!
When your drive is...omg,I love this person I need to do everything thatâs in my power to stay together cuz I love who he or she is..then youâll find a strength...
One last piece of advice for today...what ever level you want to upgrade your relationship...DO NOT FORCE IT!!!
If you seeing each other often,fuck go to movie and walk and you wanna start living together...ask and see...
Donât force it...
Donât be like...listen I wanna live with you every day and if you donât want to live with me...I will need to break up!
Thatâs a threat,thatâs not love!
I know a dream couple that were together forever but he didnât wanted to get married...
She finally forced him,telling him that itâs not fair,that he needs to take the responsibility because she spent her best years with him,and that he owes her marriage...
Sure they eventually got married but nowadays...well,letâs say theyâre in hell...
Are you fucking kidding me...how low opinion you gotta have about yourself when youâre forcing someone to marry youđżđżđż
Like obviously he didnât felt the same way...continue how you were or leave him!!!!
Donât force people into those..the most crucial things in life!!!
They need to be mutual and both parties decisions not a fucking,threats and blackmail..whatâs wrong with you????
Think about it...đđŸ
Go get some sex now and have an amazing weekendđđ€Łđđđđ
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