New year...the year of change!

Hey everybodyyyyyyyy!!!!!!!!!

Happy new year and.....shit:)))

Realy i wish you all to be better in any and every way in this new 2014.

The title is "the year of change"...funny i called it that way because to me,that's every year...well every day to be perfectly honest...

What goals should one set in new year...well we're all different and we all have different goals but we all have one thing in common...we want some thing,some aspect in our life to change for better........but how?

Well the way i see things,you're only able to make those changes with two things necessary for enybody to be a good person..those teo things are...

Love and courage!!!

Love is base...if you hate more than you love..you're in a bad,bad place in life...try to change that first cuzz take it from me....

Without love you can't do shit!

You're angry,you're bitter...and you're negative all the time..your mind in that state is not constructive but destructive...so change that in any way you think it's possible for you..

But the other thing is also crucial...courage!

you ask yourself why do i need to be brave...like...for what kind a things...

Well you need to be brave in order to change!!

If you know that some things about you you need to change...that's easy...basicly,we all know what's right or wrong...but the way we are programed to think is..." YES,BUT THAT'S WHO I AM"!!!

NO...THAT'S WHO YOU WERE !

Untill this very moment you WHERE what you think you ARE!!!

But who and what you can become is just the matter of choice...nothing else!

Most people say "yeah,but if i change this stuff that's not me anymore...WRONG!!!

If you stop smoking,cuzz you know it'll kill you...is this non smoking person a new person...NO...IT'S STILL YOU,ONLY BETTER YOU!!!

And if you're planing to make any changes in your life,make sure that all the changes you planned should be depending only on you and you alone...as soon as you involve ANYBODY  in it...you're automaticly letting yourself and the way you live depending on somebody else but you...that's where you loose all the power...

Doesn't matter how you might think you depending on some other factor in your life...the choices you make are only about you...

You don't tell on successful and unsuccessful people by the nature of their problems...it's about how they deal with their problems...that's what makes us different...some cover their heads and pray for those problems to go away and some...start confronting their problems...

You can guess for yourself which of them are successful and which are not....

One more thing...if you want to change anything about you...you also need to be brave and ready to make a mistake...there's no successful person who haven't made so many mistakes...but what made them successfull is the fact that they kept on trying..in another words they dodn't got scared of that failure....

Of course we all strive to minimalize our mistakes and also the cosequences of making them but every now and then we all get our ass kicked...it's ok...let it go..learn from it instead of sticking your head on the sand,and never dare to make another attempt...

Now...i know...you're asking now...how the fuck is he so successful to preaching anybody about anything...

The answer to that question is..i'm not...i'm not actualy preaching you..while i'm writing this i'm communicating with myself as well!

I have to br brave,i need to change and not to get scared of making mistake...cuzz i am you!

Again...happy new year everyone...and keep making a BETTER YOU !!!

Once you face your worst fears,you will expirience freedom for the first time !!!

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