East vs West...

Heya...wazz up😁😁😁

Today as every other day I was arguing with my friend from serbia about this eternal topic..east vs.west...who's stronger,smarter,humane..and shit..

And I gave it a thought and realized that I have a good example in my family where I can prove my point:))))

I have these two uncles...mom's brother and mom's cousin..well I don't know is the second one my uncle or my cousin but fuck it...

Two of them were very different from the early days...my uncle was very good in school and the cousin was..not so much

So the uncle end up being a doctor-neuropsychiatric and the cousin was a car mechanic...

Both of them grew up in families that were working families  and both had a pretty good living...

But when the dark time came to serbia...the car mechanic move to USA...first him alone,then took his family and it was a real struggle for him to stand on his feet cuz starting from scratch in amerika,with no education and absolutely not one English word...it was tough...

He was obliged to stay there first 11 or 13 years without an option of visiting serbia even for a week...cuz he desperately needed an us citizenship...

As soon as he established some sort of life,job,school for kids..he got into a messy devorce with his wife,his sister died and there was a big law suit as well so he ended up being alone again and with totally money saved..so he needed once again to start from the bottom...

In a meanwhile my uncle in serbia had a good life..more or less... a worked on a local hospital..great family with two kids..it was the time of his life...but when the things started to get rocky in serbia,and when the cousin left..my uncle stayed...

Then all the wars came and poverty,and destruction and the worse fuckin nightmare u can imagine that me and my generation call..our childhood...so things  got pretty bad...

My uncle was holding on but nobody's made of stone...all that shit around u gets u...his parents died,he started to drink heavily...it was not good...

Now...they are both retired or like gonna be in few months r something...the cousin is fuckin out of his mind...he is building houses in his yard in Serbia,buying cars,preparing everything to move there as soon as he can...

The guy is loaded wth cash..got decent retirement income...and he still haven't sold his big house and couple of cars tht his having in states...

He is driven like a fuckin teenager...

And the doctor in serbia...still living in his small appartment,have like a thirty year old car,but most of the time his riding a bicycle...and I'm not saying he's poor or anything..I mean for serbia he lives a good life and all but he is fuckin a bitter and disappointed man..

He's mad at his country,mad at his people,still drink seriously...just,everything about him seems so fuckin lost,and wrong...

Sometimes I just think about the scenario where he left serbia and went to America...man oh man...nobody knows what would actually be...but I believe that he would be larger than life...

Unfortunately...that's wasn't the case...but on the bright side,him snd his family are healthy,in good relationship and all..but I can't stop blaming fuckin Serbia for his disappointments...

I know tht money is not the key to happiness but I'm not talking about a ferarri money or monte carlo money...I'm talking about decent life money..that people there don't have..put my uncle-doctor and my mom who is a proffesors of russian on one side and a car mechanic from States on the other side...these two wouldn't have enough money in total for their cousin's vehicles let alone all the other things he can afford...

By any standards...tht's not okay..

Thanks🙏❤️✌️

Nudity...

Heya people..good?...good:)))

I'm good..I train,I work,I cook food...eat food and sleep..so.that's me:))))

As some of you may have noticed...I also like to take a picture or two myself..and since I'm naked most of the time spent home...my pictures are nude...

So,I arrange tht in some app so you don't get to see my junk and there we go...

To me..tht sounds pretty normal...but for some people..that was a shock...

Now I don't know why people make such  a big deal out of it but I do know tht it's related to their lack of self esteem...

First of all I show more of me whenever I go to the beach that in those pics but what if I were like completely naked...what would happen then?

Ok,completely naked is not my thing simply because I think It's gay...

It's a guys thing that when we see a nude genitals we forget about anything else...straight men vagina,gay men cock...

But women don't work that way...they are a bit more complicated than us so.. My dick and balls u won't be seeing any time soon...

Ok...what about my wife...

As some of u may know I put on some pics ony fb of my wife's boobs...and people were like..you're fuckin out of  mind letting everyone watching your wife's tits.. 

I go like why??? I happen to see my wife as a beautiful woman...sexy..and stuff,even now when she put on some weight..and I don't see nothing wrong with her being naked around me in front of others...

Now there are times when I don't but that's related to the environment that we're in...

Example...turkey..she takes off her bra and goes in water with an air bed to take some sun while floating in see...

After like ten minutes of floating she lifts her head and see like ten dudes circled around her like in a two meters distance and just watch:)))))😂😂😂

At that point u kinda realize...loke hey..this is not working..not here at least 😀😀😀

But in normal occasions...she's half naked or even all the way naked and we pass by and guy is like..checking on her..that's fine...like,she thinks she's hot and there you go...no harm no foul!!!

No but that's what maybe a celebrity can do not us right...no...that's the whole point of it...u don't need to be a celebrity or rich to be free in that way...you can be free cuzz life is better that way...or whatever the fuck reason u think of...It's you,It's your body...be comfortable with it...

And just for the record I'm not pushin' nobody to get naked or shit..I'm just saying tht if u feel like it,don't let anything stops u

Peace out✌️

One more indicator tht things might get a bit rough...

Heya everybody..this is me..your smart,beautiful and mega sexy friend that will help u understand shit😂😂😂 

What..I'm humble..in a way😎

Ok..recently I've written stuff about how can u reckognize that your man is a taliban when it comes to doing houseworks...

Now I'd like to point out another very fucked up thing tht can fuck up your relationship,marriage and even life...

When you're a kid or young,you're family are your parents and your siblings...and that's sweet...

But with starting of having realationships u basically learning about your future life where your family becomes the person you choose to live with and later your kids...

Why the fuck people can't get this...???

I think that their parents are the ones to blame for...cuz I believe they r the ones who create tht sick relationship between them and their children so their children stay eternally dependent on them...

Now even though their children or...your partners ar not the ones to blame for...I can tell you just one thing...

LIFE IS TOO FUCKIN SHORT FOR THT SHIT!!!!

Leaving smokes is a fuckin mission impossible let alone leaving your parents...

Now shut up for a second I know u don't need to leave your parents like...necer to speak with them again but u need to let go that previous life and start a new one with the person you love...

Now...some of u who know me..know tht I my relationship with my mom is not really the most conventional mother-son relationship and I admit that...

Even so...I told my wife in the very beginning before we even got married...I sai... my mom,my sister,my relatives are people from my life...and even tho I love them all,you..my darling are not obligated to even communicate with them if u don't want to or don't feel like it...

So this was quite relieving for her and for me too..cuzz how dificult is to find that one person that fits u and other way around..and now she needs to fit to your whole fuckin family...fuck tht...tht doesn't exist even in theory...

So whenever u see that your boyfriend tex...still asking and searching for the approval from his dad even though hi himself is basically a grown man...be certain that u too gonna be obliged to suck his father's cock same way he does..😊

So my advice,before u start anything serious is to sit down with your lovie...and analyze step by step...

Now make no mistake..no mona's boy gonna tell you..yeah I still my mother's skirt to hold on so I can feel secure..no it doesn't work tht way...

Now this is what I would do..I'm not saying u should but..whatever...

U wait untill you can clearly get in a situation where t.ex. your boyfriend is undermining your opinion and waiting for his mother's opinion,advice etc...

Well I would even said this right there and then but...u can wait untill u're alone with your boyfriend so you can ask him...

Honey...since my opinion irrelevant to you comparing to you're mother's...I gotta ask you something do you FUCK YOUR MOTHER TOO...do you have that bond from since you were a kid and you couldn't  fall asleep so she jerks you off or something???

Well...u gonna have two outcomes one is that u're start laughing about it,talk about it or anything accept breaking up...cuzz other outcome is..a break up...so..yeah I know it sucks but better now then in five years when you gonna be pregnant second time:))))

Ok..this method might be a bit radical so if you're not into that u simply start talking about moving in another city or even country..u'll see...there's no chance in hell they gonna leave...they are gonna be full of explanations how and why it's not good for you to move...so there you go...case closed..lights out..game over..

Leave..okay,don't try to turn them into something else cuzz first of all that's not fair they are human beings and they have the right to make their own choices..and second..even if you menage to break them..they gonna end up hating you..so it's a catastrophe in any case...

If you are ready to give yourself one hundred percent to someone u deserve nothing less back...

Have a fuckin great weekend my friends 😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘

Oh,just a perfect day😬

Hey friends..

As you may see I'm in the mood to write shit so...what that means I don't know..but it feels good...

Today I'm gonna focus on me😎...and how awesome I am...😂😂😂

No but seriously...I'm gonna try to prove that saying "if there's a will,there's a way"...in my case..it's about bodybuilding but ofc..u can apply it on any other aspects u wanna do 100%...

Last night my good friend asked me in a sms about helping him in the gym today and ofc I said yes... So...

This morning I set the alarm clock on 8:30 but as always I woke up like ten minutes earlier..got up...make some coffee for me and my wifey and hit the train...

In the gym..I met ma man,we did an hour of hard core back n' shoulders session...right after that both of us went to the cardio room and did some tredmill...he went after 20 minutes and I stayed for another 25..so it was 45 minutes of morning,before breakfast cardio...

From there I went home which took me like 40 minutes...there I had my breakfast  a cup of coffee and boom...got out again this time with my gym bag...

In da gym I did legs..heavy and painful for like an hour and 15-20 minutes and directly after tht a treadmill for another 30 minutes...

After that...I took a quick shower and sat on a bus to work..

Now I'm at work,taking a break to write this shit...had a meal as soon as I entered here,than another one,then it's gonna be one more before I go which is gonna be around ten tonight...

As soon as I get home I'm gonna climb on my bicycle and do another cardio session,this time...one hour straight:))))

From there...the last meal of the day..shower...sleep...

If there's a will...there's a way 👊BOOM

Ok...I vacuum,cook food and clean..so what😇

Heya..you guys!!!

My wife posted a picture of me doing some badass vacuuming while she's laying in bed and doing..shit..

Well actually she wasn't doing absolutely nothing..when she had a chance she would poke me in my butt cheek or step on a cable or something...that bitch..right:)))

No..she's my wife and I love her even when she's a complete shit😬

But when I say that I do all these house works..even in sweden...people get suprised...now...I don't know is it because they don't do it...or they're just maybe amazed like those people who gets amazed by a black girl who graduated university...without even being aware how judgmental they are..don' know....😟

However I believe that most cases where guys are not shy about these stuff are in fact guys who came from that kind of eviroment or family if you will...

So I'm not saying it's a rule but girl...if you go to your boyfriend's parents house and u see his momma slaving for his dad...check your boy on tht again..cuz very often the history gets repeated...just saying...not always but...you know...

So even I come from Serbia where male and female jobs are still very divided and my parents were born like a hundred years ago:)))) still my dad did all those stuff with my mom or alone...and he never had a problem with tht...

So what I'm saying is I was not born this way I became this way shaped by the environment I was brought up in..that's all...and it's not a rule that u become your parents cuz if tht was the thing I would be a professor or an economist and not ...a retard:))))))

But in case such as this one..it's really hard for people to accept the fact that their folks were wrong for living that way and that they are the ones who should try to establish some new rules that are more civilized and rightful...

Establishing new rules,making your own decisions is hard...it's the unknown..and what do u do when you bump into the unknown and you're not super brave person...u try to play it safe...follow the path that has been "working" for other before you...

But guess what..you are you..you're not them...and your time is now,not when they were young...so this is a new beast you're fighting against so fight it...your way! 

Food talk😛❤️😋❤️

Heya..how's shit😎😎😎

Since I got a good review from some of you on my latest pic of my food I've decided to give my stand on how I see food...and what it takes to be a good chef:)

This dish tex. took me like somewhere between 5 and 10 minutes to prepare it from scratch...I chopped some onions,paprika and my ribeye seasoned it  and frayed it in my wok for like two-three minutes,then added some heavy cream  and a bit of garlic in the end!

After putting it on a plate I took a teaspoon of good ol' Philadelphia and some chopped parsley..

Now,in normal occasions beside all this,there would be some pasta or rice,but since I'm not eating carbs at the moment I ate it as it...

...And tht brings me to my point why I couldn't become a fine dining chef...I'm simply not sophisticated enough...I can rearly eat a regular food and when I'm hungry I can pretty much eat an undercooked shit and tht's not what fine palate people do...💩

Now this doesn't necessarily means tht I should stop working as a chef..but it would be smart of me not to dream of becoming a three micheline star chef or stuff..

In da kitchen as in most other things in life u need two things...talent and skill..and that's what divides an excellence from a mediocrity...cuzz the skill part u can earn by practicing over and over but talent...no fuckin' way...

There is also a thing with a sense of touch for a certain things tex. nobody can tell you how long should u boil a potato to get a hard boiled potato...boil it too long it's a mash..too short it's raw...also with wiping a cream to three quarters...a bit less...too runny a bit more..butter so...it's a touch,but still doable and learnable...

But the true talent lies in your mouth...your sense of taste is what can give you a ticket for becoming a great chef...

I cook some food...use like five or more diferent spices...serve it to me an my wife...she can guess each and every one that i put inside..that stuff I don't have...but again...talent without practice is nothing...that's why my wife couldn't tell a diference between an oven and a washing machine:)))

So much as I adore Gordon Ramsay's food I'll always gonna look more like Jamie Oliver...now I'm nowhere near any of them ofc...it's just tht I'm more of a mr.simpleton thn mr.art cousin...

So...when u go somewhere where some real chefs cook...don't be stupid and talk what was good and what was bad..cuz you don't know tht...if you think that some food from sone super fine restaurant was bad...that's probably your handicap and not theirs..so try to at least be humble about it...or..simply..go to McDonald's 🍟🍔

Adagio..as I promised❤️

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